Are you sharing your Victim Story or Passion Story?

Understanding the Difference

As entrepreneurs, we often find ourselves narrating our experiences through two distinct lenses: the passion story and the victim story.

The passion story revolves around the "why" behind our entrepreneurial journey, encapsulating everything we are deeply passionate about – our mission, the positive aspects of our work, and the meaningful contributions we make. Sharing our passion story fosters connection, conveys our commitment to our tasks, and spreads positivity, cultivating a productive mindset and attracting people to us like a magnet.

The victim story is a compilation of the challenges, setbacks, and the aspects of our work that we dislike. It extends beyond professional hurdles to include the events in our lives that thwarted our pursuit of an idealized perfect life.

It's not uncommon for individuals to share their victim stories. The allure of the victim story lies in its relatability – we've all faced obstacles and disappointments. However, focusing on this narrative can be emotionally draining, not only for ourselves but also for those around us. I don’t know about you, but I dislike following people who are always negative, sad or angry. It’s simply draining.

The Power of Focusing on Your Passion Story

While it may be tempting to default to the victim story, the real magic happens when we consciously choose to center our narrative around our passion story. This shift in focus is not about denying or dismissing challenges; rather, it's a strategic choice to emphasize the positive aspects of our journey, both personally and professionally.

When we share our passion story, we inspire others by highlighting the purpose behind our work. This creates a ripple effect, fostering a culture of optimism, resilience, and innovation. It attracts more positive people, changing your network for the better.

Embracing the passion story allows us to tap into our intrinsic motivation, reinforcing our commitment to our goals even in the face of challenges. It empowers us to view setbacks as opportunities for growth rather than insurmountable roadblocks.

While it may not be easy or even possible at times (we all go through difficult experiences throughout our lives) we do have the power most of the time to shape our lives and our story!

During your photoshoot, we encourage you to practice showing up as your highest, most empowered self. It’s within you, you need to practice letting that person out more.

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Marta

We recently had a very special photoshoot with Marta Herman, an accomplished, award-winning opera singer. We first photographed Marta 10 years ago, so in a way this was our anniversary.

Looking at these photos of Marta as well as the ones from our previous photoshoots, I see her story as a woman and as an opera singer. It makes me emotional to see her journey through life as she’s going through different stages, as she’s changing and growing, stepping into her power, getting to know herself more and more, becoming more beautiful in the true sense of this word every single year.⁣

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High Achiever Savoir-Vivre: 5 Essential Rules for Professional Success

Have you heard the saying: “people will forget what you said but they won’t forget how you made them feel”? Mastering the art of business savoir-vivre is crucial on the journey to becoming successful.

Here are 5 Essential Rules for Professional Success:

1. Keep Your Word

Promises and commitments are the currency of trust. When you say you will deliver a project by a certain date or meet a deadline, it's imperative to honor that commitment. Reliability builds trust, and trust is the absolute bedrock of successful professional relationships.

Breaking promises or consistently failing to meet commitments can damage your reputation and erode the trust others place in you. It’s always better to under promise and over deliver.

2. Respect Boundaries

Respecting boundaries is a fundamental aspect of business etiquette. This involves recognizing and honoring the personal and professional boundaries of others. It's crucial to be mindful of people's time, privacy, and personal space.

Avoiding intrusive questions, not overstepping personal boundaries, and being aware of cultural differences contribute to creating a respectful and inclusive workplace. By respecting the boundaries of others, you demonstrate a high level of emotional intelligence and professionalism.

3. Communicate Expectations

Clearly articulating expectations ensures that everyone is on the same page and minimizes misunderstandings. Whether it's setting project goals, outlining job responsibilities, or discussing performance expectations, communication is key.

Effective communication involves active listening as well. Taking the time to understand others' perspectives and concerns fosters collaboration and teamwork. Communicating expectations helps avoid multiple problems.

4. Professional Presentation

A polished and professional presentation style reflects a commitment to excellence and attention to detail, reinforcing the positive image you project in the business world. People assume things about us based on how we present ourselves, whether in person or online. If we look messy, they’ll assume our work is messy. If we look outdated, they’ll assume our expertise is outdated.

A big part of professional presentation is being on time. I always try to follow this rule: “10 minutes early is on time, on time is late and 10 minutes late is not acceptable”. Even if something happens, by trying my best to follow this rule I can minimize being late.

5. Take Responsibility for Yourself

Taking responsibility for your actions and decisions is a mark of true professionalism. If mistakes are made, own up to them and take the necessary steps to rectify the situation. Avoiding blame-shifting and acknowledging your role in both successes and failures demonstrates integrity and accountability. At the end of the day, we’re all human and mistakes happen from time to time.

Avoid any kind of victim behaviours to be seen as professional, always focus on what you can do not on what you cannot do.

Would you add anything to this list?

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Carla

It was a delight to work with Carla on her Brand Photoshoot for her website and social media!

Carla has over 24 years of experience in the pharmaceutical/medical industry. She has worked as a nurse in paediatrics, oral and maxillofacial surgery, and plastic surgery.

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“You brought out the best in me <3 forever grateful!”

— Carla

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Monica

It was a pleasure to capture Dr. Monica Vermani again.

The goal for Dr. Vermani’s Brand Photoshoot was to capture both professional and casual looks. The photos will be used for marketing across many platforms, including websites, magazines, youtube and social media.

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“Thank you for your amazing photographs! You are phenomenal, creative and truly talented Agnes! You always make a person feel comfortable, confident and we always sparkle in our authenticity in your photo shoots! Truly grateful for you”

— Monica

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Adrianne

It was a delight to capture Adrianne again.

In her thirties, Adrianne became the first woman founder in North America to own a fully licensed Private Investigations and Security Agency. Today, her firm has the longest history in the private investigation and security sector in North America, paving the way for other females should they choose this industry.

Adrianne’s newest venture, a media company I Am Unbreakable is a supportive and inclusive platform that amplifies a woman's voice, perspectives, experiences and achievements. By encouraging women to embrace their strengths, cultivate their talents and speak out confidently, they aim to create a world where every woman can freely express herself, shape her own narrative, and inspire positive change.

“I will start by saying I am somewhat (lol) particular in who I work with as a photographer. I will also add that I have done this for many years and have never worked with a pro like Agnes. She is a one-of-a-kind photographer. Her talent is second to none and on top of that Agnes brings a creativity to the table that is truly unique.

I have done many photo shoots, but nothing like the ones with Pure Studios. Her work and #rockstar clients speak for themselves. I will also add she is fantastic at collaborating with you to get the look that you want. Her styling expertise is so appreciated!”

— Adrianne

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